You might want to find a BMW diesel forum and ask how the BMW ECU might react to high sulfur fuel or a plugged dpf.
My story... we had excessive regen problems with our 2010 Ford light truck, drove ok but got so bad it was almost always in regen = high fuel consumption, runs hot, dilutes oil, must cool down before shutting off. Thought it might stop running.
Dealer could not clean it enough with manual regen so a new DPF was recommended. The part alone was ~2,300 euro plus a 4 day wait. This was in Canada. Truck had <120,000km. Almost all driving had been highway, mountains, at GVWR, little idling, correct fuel, correct oil etc. In other words the truck worked hard and the DPF "shouldn't" have had such a short service life - but sometimes things just go wrong.
Have you considered the petrol version for your trip ?