If you didn’t want the attention, you shouldn’t a gone and done that.
The only time I saw a woman’s identity work out well on a “man’s” hobby sight was …. My dad.
His name was Lynn. Someone on the Fish Erie board assume he was a she, and he ran with it. Good fishing holes are always a secret, and locals try to hide when there are runs on… except apparently if they think you are a hot chick. So, he’d pretend he was a babe, and get them to tell him where and where, and that he would meet them to fish. He’d go and never talk to anyone there, and make excuses as to why “she” didn’t make it late.
He was 79 doing this shit. Pure genius if you ask me.
Other than that, the non stop flirting and attention drove 9 of 10 away women away from the sites going back to early 90s mailing lists. I hope you’re ready!