Victron's software is best in class. I do know that Redarc's components are better suited for harsher conditions, I watched a video that tested output at as temperature went up and the redarc dcdc output started to degrade at a higher temperature than the victron. Not really relevant for a typical Grenadier setup probably but if you are installing under the hood or doing most of your camping in hot dusty places then Redarc is a great choice.
I'm still on the fence, as the redarc bcdc being able to handle dc-dc and solar in one simplifies a build, and i'm not going to be living out of the grenadier exclusively for more than a couple days at a time. Solar is more of a 'neat, I have a cpl of panels on the roof' kind of thing.
What are people doing for switch panels? My thinking is to leave all the stock switches in the cockpit to running loads and have all the house battery accessories switched in the rear, since those will primarily be used with the engine off and I don't want to have to jump in the front seats to control them. I've read good things about the switchpros SP9100